On our journey I've been very reluctant to travel outside
the USA. Well our friend we visited in December
is going to Italy to visit her best friend and her new daughter, so Don just
jumped in with both feet and bought us tickets. Well I say bought but really he
used the last of his airline miles to get us our tickets to Venice. He was going to surprise me at Christmas with
it but since I was going to Atlanta to stay with our friends for the weekend,
he thought he’d better tell me in advance, just in case it was accidentally
mentioned.
Good thing he did
tell me because they all wanted to make plans, arrangements, etc. I am thrilled but also apprehensive. We both know if an expectant mom matches with
us and is even remotely close to her due date we aren't going. Of course we will just reschedule the trip
for some other time and take our child with us once they can get a passport. So in preparation I am using Duolingo to
learn basic Italian. I just started it
yesterday and I must say so far it’s easier than French.
I am actually fairly good at picking up languages but
terrible with speaking it so I don’t unless I absolutely must. As don said when we went to Paris its OK you
can read and write it and I’ll speak. I
love him so much for his understanding that I just don’t want to get it wrong
and say something inappropriately. I don’t
like offending people and then to do so in another country with a different
culture, well it makes the shy, guarded girl in me terrified to speak.
Thank goodness Italy loves American tourists and most speak
English so it won’t be totally necessary to speak Italian. I do like knowing the basics though. I’m also super grateful that our friend,
before she married, lived there a few years and is completely fluent in not
just the language but the culture. I
would hate to smile at someone and have it taken the wrong way or be a target
of pick pockets (which we will be anyway as tourists). She filled me in completely on both of those
points and many others during our weekend visit. I can’t wait to see an opera
in Venice and to see the Vatican, the ruins of ancient Rome and Rome today. I
love that we are going to rent a car and drive to Tuscany and the many places
along the way that we’ll see. I am
looking forward to spending time with her friend and her friend’s miracle daughter.
That whole story is a gem but it isn't
mine to tell but suffice it to say I’m thrilled for them to have a family and
can’t wait for our own.
Our trip is coming up in a few weeks and we’re so lucky to
have family who come stay at the house for us. They watch the cats while I take
the dogs to the kennel for their own vacation with other dogs to play with all
day. I miss them constantly when we’re
away, as in actual heartache because I am with them 24/7/365 and they are my
babies. I know they miss us but they
also have a good time socializing with the other dogs so it’s why they go so
they miss us just a bit less.
So I must get back to more basic intro to Italian. Ciao!
